Your W is baiting you. She wants you to react so she can justify her anger. Dont take the bait. Calmly walk away if you feel like you are going to get sucked in.
Hang in there, I know how guilt ridden you feel in regards to your D. I went through the same thing during my D from ex-wife (not my current WAW). It killed me to see my little 5 year old daughter hurt from our seperation.
