Yes I talked to a L. He said I could get aliomony, child support, daycare etc etc. I just KNOW my h cant afford that and keep this house and his car and all the bills.
I honestly do not know what will happen if he proceeds with the divorxe. He doesnt want to use lawyers but I also do not want to be screwed over.
He can be very mean at times and I wonder if he even knows it. I will have to do that. I usually say nothing because I do not want to fight so maybe telling him something then walking away can be a new boundary instead of sitting there quietly.
He tests me alot.. He will text me just to see if I still will come to the room if he asks me to. He will ask him if I'll make him a sandwich while Im making the kids a sandwich and myself one so it is not hard to make an extra one and then be all shocked and make a smart assy comment such as..wow you will make your estranged husband a sandwich still!
I struggle to find the balance of being nice without doing too much. I feel like he really tests me and i do not know why. It drives me nuts. I'm always a caring, sweet, person so it is hard to know how much is too much when I'm already doing 80% less then usual.
