Need help. Threading water, must learn to swim.

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Thank you for the support rich4j. We have joint and legal custody in the state that I live. I originally was prepared to go 50/50 with her being primary but I am reconsidering. I haven't hired a L but I have spoken to 3 different ones. I was going to go with middle ground (and I still may) but the shark is looking better each day.

I haven't recorded what each of us does with D3 but that sounds like a good idea. I tend to do activities with her while WW sirs her in front of the TV.

All 3 Ls said to stay in the home but I need to reconsider. I was waiting to be served before making a final decision on which L to hire but I am beginning to think, why am I waiting for WW to come to her senses. She isn't any time soon and she may never come to them again.

The home sitch is toxic now. My WW was complaining that it was toxic to her and I kind of shrugged and thought to myself that the only reason it was toxic was because she was having an A and acting like a brat. Seems like since she is miserable, she has taken it upon herself to make everybody else miserable as well. The thing that irks me the most is that she isn't completely oblivious to what she is doing to D3. She sees; however, she chooses to blame me for it rather than take any responsibility. She always has had a troubled relationship with her mother yet she becomes more and more like her each day. One of these days she will wake up and realize that she has created the same dynamic between her and our D3. Only then it will be too late. The irony.