It is kind of ironic... In the 2 week down time between my posts I did some research on how to lessen the rollercoaster even more. I researched dealing with passive people and re-read Sandi's old thread on LBHs and the like.
I see a lot of myself in the article. And I frequently give thoughts/comments/recommendations to follow people like Squiggy when it comes to LBH situations. Those people who make an assertive stand seem to do something right.
Thinking about my own situation, I did that only twice (the house and child support). Everything else I just went with the flow.
And I still do. I found out about the OM sleeping over from the kids. I found out last minute about the trip to the city to see the OM. And yet we have not discussed anything in regards to parenting besides the kids birthday parties.
My startup is going great! We made another newspaper. Thats three now and demolition on our space is almost done and ready for construction. My life is drastically changing for the better, in every area but one.
That needs to change.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
