Need help. Threading water, must learn to swim.

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Hi rich4j. I have told her and I told her again today that her behavior was unacceptable and she needed to leave. She responded by getting in my face and daring me to hit her. Believe me, I would have loved to lay the smack down but that is not something I want to teach D3 and it would have gotten me arrested. Instead, I turned my back to her and started my phone recording. L said the state in which I reside is 1 person consent so I figured let her spew.

If I had been in a different room, I would have taken D3 and left but besides WW blocking the door (daring me to touch her) D3 was on the porcelain throne. I really didn't feel comfortable leaving her with WW at that time. I also realize my WW is very conniving but she doesn't realize how conniving I can be. She has always let it be known that she can be conniving. I always have felt it best not to advertise that type of information. Let them find out after the fact.

Some people may say that I should have threatened to call the police. I was trying to diffuse the situation. Calling would have exacerbated the sitch and my WW has already threatened to have the sheriff remove me from the house so I have no doubt she is ready to lie to accomplish that if the police came.

All of this has made me reconsider our custody sitch. Initially, I was willing to let D3 live with WW because she used to be a good mother and she had a more flexible schedule. I think I will look into full custody and let her have supervised visits since she can't seem to hold her tongue or hide her anger and resentment.

Anyone have any advice?