I don't really consider myself the nice guy type some would say I'm an a-hole. Yes, I did kiss her a$$ after we separated for awhile but not anymore. I'm not really sure how to look at my sitch though. After all I have read I'm pretty sure when my dad got sick it triggered a MLC in me and I kind of went wayward first but by the time I came to my senses it was too late and she was going wayward. I'm not really sure what to do but definitely don't want to go down the road of the persuer again. I have just been trying to detach and let her have the divorce she felt she needed. I'm already past all the separation end the marriage stuff. It's pretty much either I will see her again or I won't.

Sandi you are awesome and damn I wish I have found this site before I was already going through it!

M 39 XW 35
T 11 M 7.5 No Kids
BD 8/15 Served 9/15
D 12/15

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