Job- your post made me sad saying that it looks like the divorce might go through because he needs it. Because everything has been split he has no accountability financially or otherwise to me right now. Will this be enough for him to move ahead through his crisis? I still tear up daily thinking about him and how he can give up what we had. I'm doing my best to detach but it's so much harder than last year because he did come back after I db'd him.


Me: 51 H:50
M: 28 years T: 31 years
4 Ds: 24, 22, 19, 17
BD Jan 2013
D filed Feb 2015
Papers pulled Aug 2015
D re-filed Jan 2016