I have to agree with both Bright and Sotto. Your h is still somewhat confused and is still trying to find the right costume to wear to the grown up ball that will take place at the end of his "season in MLC".
You have given him a safe place to land since he sent you the photos of him all dressed up on Valentine's Day. He had to be reassured that you weren't going to show those photos to anyone, and now he's relieved that you told him that you didn't have any plans for them. In his own little confusion, he still wanted you to be a part of his fun day and wanted to share a bit w/you.
You have to remember he's going to be all over the place until he finally settles down. The question is, can you detach a bit more? I think that if you can look at him as just a friend, the man next door or a local teenager might help you a bit. You have to go beyond the outer body and not think of him as your h and try to look at him as someone who is trying to grow up. He's operating on nothing but emotions right now and I would venture to say, he's going to do a lot of strange things in the months to come. He's experimenting w/doing different things and who knows, this might be a good thing...at least he knows he doesn't want to wear a dress or heels long term. LOL!
If you can dig deeper for more patience and a sense of humor, I think you'll begin to see more and more of him trying to figure things out and grow up.
Hang in there. Try not to over analyze what he says or does because it's not going to make sense to you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
