Wonka's advice helped me and this is not even my thread. I have been separated 2 months and everyday feel like it has been forever. I did not know most od the time it takes 6-9 months MINIMUM and average is a year or more. I was thinking 2-3 months MAX. I feel like that is very good advice that I will start to follow as well.
Nygal I know yesterday was hard. Valentines day was very hard for me also. I think we both can be the same with wanting our people back and want them now since they go hot and cold. It is a mental and physical struggle. I am trying to post to my thread when I want to contact him so I don't.
It was a hard day..I ended up on bed with my wah so it was a HARD DAY for me too. We both just need to get it together and really try to follow the db rules. We can do it..even on days where we just want to call and maybe stalk them. ( I have done a few 1-2 am drive bys just to see if anything was happening)
