I have read more of your story. I have a connection with you and your story. Here are a few similarities:
- you had a good physical/emotional connection with your W; - W had a tummy tuck, pre-separation; - married 21 years when the separation took place; - the separation happened when W was pre-menopause.
There were other things, but my big question is WHAT HAPPENED? Your W was going to see the divorcer attorney. Then you stopped posting. You people who "glide along" in life... I hope that I can trap you long enough to answer some questions.