mirage/Spirit,

I have read more of your story. I have a connection with you and your story. Here are a few similarities:

- you had a good physical/emotional connection with your W;
- W had a tummy tuck, pre-separation;
- married 21 years when the separation took place;
- the separation happened when W was pre-menopause.

There were other things, but my big question is WHAT HAPPENED? Your W was going to see the divorcer attorney. Then you stopped posting. You people who "glide along" in life... smile I hope that I can trap you long enough to answer some questions.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace