I really hoped that you would post today. The anger gives me the fire to stand up for myself, but I will not let it control me or give her anymore fuel as to why I am a bad guy in her mind. I did not contact the OM, I realized it will only push her into his arms with sympathy and make me look like the "big bad controlling husband" she thinks I am. I AM GOING TO BE A MAN, and I accept that she won't like it. Tough love I guess.
Read half of ... So much insight into myself, I am greatful for this opportunity in life to have the chance to take an honest look at myself where I am and how to be the real me and the man I want to be. Still need to pick up ....
Also, I really like Sandi2 most recent post about nice guys and WW. Brutally honest, but that's what I need to avoid making excuses in my mind "why I am different" or "they don't understand this" type stuff.
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