I think it is the MLC skewed logic. Saying things and not appreciating (most) others would find that unnacceptable, perverse.
It's a bit like my H first and foremost wanting to be a full time Dad, and so he needs a (10+ years) younger woman to oblige. Would you want to become his GF on that basis? He's apparently very open about his great broodiness to those around him. Feels to me a bit like a king seeking a queen (must be fertile) to bear an heir. Most people would look at these situations and think- what??
Skewed logic IMHO
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