What the heck is this?

[BrightFuture]

OMG, red dress, a wig, and a bra… You made my day, 2T! I bet there are a few more MLCers in that group, LOL.

As for your questions, I think it is both, the subconscious sabotaging part and manipulation. It is also all about him and his needs, so he doesn’t even think how his words could affect his relationship.

Question #2, I have to think about some more… I think part of it that he wants to be in two worlds at the same time. And you might be right, that he was trying to make you jealous, just in case he would need you.

This is my take on it. I’m sure the vets will have more substance in their answers. I would love to hear other opinions too, since I ask myself similar questions about why H says and does certain things too.