Thanks for the encouragement NYGal. Unfortunately I am in it for the long haul. While there is part of me that wishes I could say f this I am out of here, that is not my heart. I know this is not a "if I do everything right she will be back next week" and I have some serious work to do and emotions to hide. But I have hope.

NYGal, I wish you the very best of luck! and you have my sincerest sympathies for you sitch.

Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16