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What advice do you give for us in this sitch. My wife left 9 months ago but checked out long before that.
Do you think divorce is the only way to go?


Hi Bob, before divorce, I would advise the H to drop the rope and act as if they are already D. Go as dark as possible. The divorce papers just makes it legal, however, she should get a taste of how it will be.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!