I hope you don't leave the boards. I am fairly new here and I have to tell you I wish that I would've found this site months earlier. You have very good people giving you advice. I only WISH I had enough interactions with my H that these people could be giving me the same advice. Even if it sounds like "tough love", they care enough to help you have the best options to reconcile. So, I hope you can accept what they have to say and I hope it helps.
Thanks for your kind words, I do accept their advice and I'm very thankful for it. Per the title of this post I'm confuse, different types of advices. I'm having a nervouse brakedown that I never had and my work is veey demanding, if I make a mistake it my bring harm to someone (had a hyperventilatuon attack yesterday). I need to get a hold of my self if anything happens to me my kids and wife will be in very bad shape atleast when it comes financially, although my wife could work it would not be enough to scratch the surface of what we need every month. My/our business is slow and been living from savings for the past three months. Our M is falling apart. My wife is having an AE and won't give it up. When my wife is gone our kids will be Deviated.
