Thanks Thornton. My mind has been spinning. I appreciate your input on my thread. I will keep it short and simple. She doesn't really currently have access to finances to due this as I have protected myself as advised by others. I am sure she will say that she doesn't have the ability to, I guess I can say that we are separated and it is not my responsibility to take care of you, and as you said, "I will not help in any way" I was planning on telling her no more internet and no more cell phone as I will no longer be facilitating her contact with OM in anyway. I know she will still have access where she is staying but dang sure not in our MH, not in front of our children any longer. I have recently found out that they tell each other they love each other on speaker phone in front of my children. NOT COOL.
