So, I think that my wife wants to be divorced, but wants me to file. I am thinking about stating that this is not what I would choose. I know that with god's help we could rebuild this marriage if we both wanted to, but also I now that it is not in my control and if that is her choice then she needs to do what she needs to do. Anyone know of any good threads I can read before we talk?

I NEED some advice and wisdom desperately