An IC I was seeing a long while ago told me it was unhealthy for me to take pleasure that the OM's life had fallen apart. I fixed that by not going to the IC anymore. I am thrilled that his life is in the crapper. That he's a 40-something year old man that has to live with his elderly mother. That his career crashed and burned. I couldn't be happier about it and if it makes me happy then it's a good thing. Don't feel bad about not feeling bad for her. If it brings you some happiness in this dark time in your life then it's a good thing.
