NYGal: Still Trying to GAL

[Sotto]

Hi NYG, I know it's tough, but please read what other posters are advising and follow the advice! Many of us have been here a while now and know what works and doesn't work.

Please don't measure your own progress by the (frankly dodgy) yardstick of someone who has got themselves caught up in an A.

Accept that you may not see sustained change for a while yet and let go of her coat tails. It will serve you well to do this I promise. Let go of the thought that you just need to find that magic bullet and all will be well. It doesn't work like that.

This is why people advise - focus on you. You are the one thing you can rely on here.

Please read back over recent posts, think about what you are posting, re-read the 37 rules and move forward.

You can do this my friend xx