Yet another great thread Sandi. Thanks

Cadet, throughout my situation I have thought about what I can and should teach my sons. They are still young so I have time. I have every intention of using what I have learned to improve me, to also guide them. This is not the topic of this thread but I wanted to highlight it as an important point.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together