That has got to be frustrating to have made so much progress and still not have everything click into place.

I was not asking specifically about the physical side of things but that was part of it. Thanks for sharing.

Being in my situation I now place a higher value on handholding and even the hand on chest in bed. When I have those again I will be appreciative.they cannot replace sex but are highly important as can be felt daily. I know you appreciate these things too. Plus it is still progressing positively.

Sounds like a pretty good weekend.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together