I will survive

[RosaLinda]

Holy cow V, your husband sounds like so many of the spouses we read about on here, cheating, lying, spending money like crazy, physically and emotionally abusive. He's just added gambling as an extra added attraction

Luckily no matter what our spouse's label - walk away, wayward, mid life crisis - our response is basically the same. To face up to and fix our own faults, become the best people we can be, and give them time and space they need to try to fix and heal themselves. Unluckily, they often don't seem to see the need.

Anyway, thanks!