Gotta love mind reading expectations. But, baby steps. I'm wondering if I should change back my Facebook status to show married - I'm not trying to play games. And yeah, it looks that way. Still, it made him curious/nervous. But that's maybe not a good thing.

Good point about the equivalence to falling off the horse. Wonder how she thinks of you trying to help her. It's probably still a bit tricky in her mind there - I wouldn't put it that way to her much (IMHO). She does need you, very much, but I'm not sure how much she gets that or (like a teenager), *wants* that, but she needs you.

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?