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Your issues, huh? Remove the plank from your own eye!

He is very delusional. You def. need to keep speaking to the Bishop.

I'm fine. Wife is still her nasty self some days, but I'm much better able to deflect. She made mention today that she might be depressed, and doesn't know what she wants. It's actually movement in the right direction.

I did tell her happy valentines day ("Yeah, yeah, blah blah blah" was her response), got her carnations... she was upset at them. Oh well. She's getting a gift from me to - delivered this week. She can't stop me loving her. I told her I loved her today, and when she was starting to take a nap, I kissed her on the forehead - I'm showing I respect that she's hurting, but I'm still here.

She does make mention often that I don't listen, similar to your H. I think she talks in her head, and since I'm not there, she assumes. Great sermon at church today that really pointed right at her - that God sometimes doesn't answer prayers, and that sometimes it because we're stuck in our sin.

Still concerned about where you are at, Kyrie. Your husband isn't right. If he's a pastor going to nudie bars, he's WAY out in left field, way in the wrong, and in danger to lead others astray, the OPPOSITE of what a pastor is called to do. I'd move up the food chain past the Bishop. It might get messy, but you have to do it. Keep us posted.