W and I don't really have any communication about things related to next steps. We are separated ( 2 months) and only discuss logistics around day to day stuff for kids. I think scheduling an hour a week would be a good thing to get a chance to understand her reasons why D is what she wants and also a good chance to validate her feelings. Would this be pursuing? Thoughts on is this a good idea and if so, how should I approach it?

I was reading the below thread on do's and don't

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3) Try your best to refrain from initiating any conversation that puts her out when you bring it up. Suggest that the two of you meet every Sunday night for at least an hour, so you guys can discuss legal matters, financial arrangements, visitation schedules, and any other serious issue that needs attention. NOTHING EMOTIONAL, or MARITAL, at least not for a while (this means no more venting your feelings). All questions and issues that deal with your failing marriage or your broken heart must be put on hold until she wants to talk about them, which can take a long time"

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=75744#Post75744