NYGal: Still Trying to GAL

[trumpet]

NYGal,

It seems you have a wall that you lean on.

That wall pops up from time to time - it's nice and easy to put your weight on it. It feels good, no?

Find another wall. Everyone needs a wall to lean on. I'm not insinuating that you find another mate, but use your support network, have some fun, re-link with old friends.

I hear hope and some desperation in your posts. Your wayward isn't going to show up out of the fog for a while. Showing her you've moved on a bit, without true intention, sets you up for a cycle of temp. checking. Really tell her you're happy to move on, and do that.

It does take time. I'm on month 4. It's gotten easier.