Sandi's Reflections

[brutus3]

Sandi2 makes an interesting point about separation. Once my wife left the MB, I never felt more alone in my life. When I moved out, oddly enough, I felt less lonely. Once I found out about the 2nd guy, it gave me some control of the situation. However, I knew it opened the door for her to do whatever she wanted and I accepted that risk. But I knew I was only postponing the inevitable if I didn't leave. If we stayed together under the same roof, it would eventually go so uncomfortable that life would become unbearable.