Hope you didn't send the guilt-inducing text, NYGal. I can tell you from experience that they don't work. I promise. I have countless long emails and texts that are very logical and on point that only make my H more mad and distant.

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16