HopeRB,

Your story sounds so similar to mine. My H limits any interaction between us as well and I sense that he is moving to a new normal without me the more time we are separated. There are days I have hope and there are days I pray to have no hope and just get on with my life and not "stand still". Flight and TO324 had such great insight. I need to remember that I am moving to a "new normal" that may or may not include my H. All of us here have to remember that db'ing makes us stronger for ourselves and gives us some hope that our spouses will notice that they hate to be without us. However, if that doesn't happen we will still have GAL and become the best person we can be with or without them. I hope you aren't feeling as sad as when you posted earlier! Thinking of you and everyone db'ing today....


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16