Julie, I wanted to say that I am feeling the same way. I don't want to be in limbo anymore. I will not force things today or next week, but I have decided that I will not stay in limbo indefinitely. I think I can wait until this summer. But being in limbo is not good for me emotionally or physically, it is taking a toll on me and this is my life too. By summer it will be 1.5 years for me and I think that is enough.


BD 2/15
separation 1/16
formerly Pho or Fo