Just a Valentine's Day update! My first Valentine's without my wife in 15 years the IC and support group and this board has helped a lot! WW is still being friendly but definitely does not want to reconcile, is moving forward with OP. They are already thinking of purchasing a house together. I have been sleeping very well lately, and am able to focus more at work. Seriously just want her to be happy and I enjoy when she does call and tells me how well things are going for her in her new career. I'm not sure how realistic it is that we will be friends moving forward, as we will have other romantic interests. I just feel comfortable with the decision, and am ready to move forward with my life. Probably a tough emotional time when we get the legal part of it out of the way, but I feel like I deserve someone faithful / honest / loyal. And am I going to have to start new thread? If so, how do I do that?
M 43 W 45 M 10.5 T 15 S 26 D 17 (previous relationships) ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D Confirm affair 1/10/16 W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)
the IC and support group and this board has helped a lot! WW is still being friendly but definitely does not want to reconcile, is moving forward with OP. They are already thinking of purchasing a house together. I have been sleeping very well lately, and am able to focus more at work. Seriously just want her to be happy and I enjoy when she does call and tells me how well things are going for her in her new career. I'm not sure how realistic it is that we will be friends moving forward, as we will have other romantic interests. I just feel comfortable with the decision, and am ready to move forward with my life. Probably a tough emotional time when we get the legal part of it out of the way, but I feel like I deserve someone faithful / honest / loyal. And am I going to have to start new thread? If so, how do I do that?