MB. You did great. Hang in there. Now he knows the crazy follows HIM wherever he goes. And ow will always remember that what you said confirms her suspicions about him. They are doomed. But now is the time to stand firm and hold your head up high.
I'm not surprised they both drive by your apt. Do you see how that gives you power? Just like you give him power over your serenity when you check up on him. You're his W and you are not far from his thoughts. Ever.
But now you have to decide if you would ever want him back. I envy all the people who say they grew so much and became happy with themselves to such a degree that when X comes back, they've already moved on. I know you want H back just like I want W back. But ultimately maybe we're better than that. We deserve more. True love from someone who would NEVER treat us this way.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat