Sandi2, I been up since 3am reading your old post and in it you mention that you felt that "If there's no sex....there's no marriage". Last night I ask my wife what do you feel when we are together watching movies, she reply "happy". Than I ask what do you think love is to what she reply "sex in a marriage", I told her sex is great and I always want it and sure it is important in a marriage but it's not what love is about. Sorry haven't finish reading your post yet but "how did you understand begun to understand? Just how you felt my wife feels too"
