Thanks again for your input Sotto. I am not really doing a dance with her, but since I work ( and am having to work extra jobs to get by)and she doesn't, the last thing I have time to do is go through the house looking for the things she wants. I spent last night and today gathering up as much as I could find and have set it by the front door.
I have considered a workshop. I will have to try and find one.
What makes it hurt even worse is that she and her parents continually involve the children and discuss things with them in which they should have no part. She absolutely refuses to co-parent (which was one of the main issues we had while married). There was rarely any sharing or compromise. I still struggle with her to get information on events that are going on with the kids as well as things regarding education. There is almost nothing I can do to not make her angry if I insist she share information with me or express a concern that she has not informed me of something regarding them.
