I read the last several pages about shredding photos and throwing out love notes. I think it's when the reminders cause pain, or guilt, or clash with the new reality they have built in their minds. How can you re-write history and claim the R was always bad if you're confronted with proof it was loving and happy?


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17