I read the last several pages about shredding photos and throwing out love notes. I think it's when the reminders cause pain, or guilt, or clash with the new reality they have built in their minds. How can you re-write history and claim the R was always bad if you're confronted with proof it was loving and happy?
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17