KGirl, I read your previous posts a few months ago because your story had some similarities to mine and we tend to over analyze things in the same way (writing that sentence makes me feel a little creepy though). I was inspired by your update in the fall, and came back here for the first time in a long time and ended up seeing your most recent post.

All I can say is that your exbf has some serious issues. It's probably a lot easier to see it from the outside, but his behavior would make many people feel crazy. What kind of boyfriend won't even tell you what he's up to? Thats beyond secretive, and it would make me feel like he's hiding something. It's not you, you're not overly clingy or crazy. His secrecy is a huge red flag.

I'm just in the texting stage with a guy I like, and I know what his workweek is like, what he's doing right now, and where he's going for his vacatuon. And we've only been flirting for a few weeks. How else do you get to know somebody? What else do you talk about?


Me: early 30s
Husband: early 30s
Married 3 years, together 6
No children

ILYBINILWY: 3/2015
He asks for divorce: 4/2015
Moves out for good: 5/2015
I start the divorce process 8/2015