Smile and laugh to y.ourself, if a baby cried you would go and comfort. It's only control if you let it. It fails as control if you set a boundary for next time.
So new boundary?
If WH texts this again, what do you do?
Make a decision and enforce the boundary.
WH you cried wolf last time you text so.................
My thoughts
V
Yes V I thought the same. I told myself next time he is HOME and needs me he can a- GET UP AND FIND ME or b- yell for me and I'll yell back WHAT(UNLESS the kids are asleep and I MIGHT text back what do you need.)