I'm trying! But still very much have these negative feelings about being too inquisitive and clingy - that at this stage I didn't need to know everything he was doing and I put too much pressure on him (and therefore, I managed to ruin a good thing and even if I find someone else I'll ruin that too ). But where's the line? I didn't want to know or need to know everything he's doing every minute of every day. But I feel like in normal conversation things come up like "I'm going to dinner w/ my coworkers on Thursday, one is having a show in an art gallery! should be fun" or "hey I'm gonna be busy all night doing a work project so if you text me I'll answer at 10pm". Or is even asking for that too much 6 months in? Sigh. I feel like my boundaries and expectations are all out of wack coming from a long-term, live-in relationship.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
). But where's the line? I didn't want to know or need to know everything he's doing every minute of every day. But I feel like in normal conversation things come up like "I'm going to dinner w/ my coworkers on Thursday, one is having a show in an art gallery! should be fun" or "hey I'm gonna be busy all night doing a work project so if you text me I'll answer at 10pm". Or is even asking for that too much 6 months in? Sigh. I feel like my boundaries and expectations are all out of wack coming from a long-term, live-in relationship.
