Unfortunately the counselor we were seeing individually before starting couples therapy told her I would never change and that she deserved to be with someone who made her happy (at least that what she took from it)
That's what she took from it! Did you hear the counselor say that? This sounds like typical WAW hogwash. Think about it. It certainly suits her agenda. No responsible LMHC would ever say that.
Me: 39 W: 38 T-18yrs M-13yrs 2 Girls: 10 & 3 EA BD 5/24/15 Separate Bedrooms 6/12/15 PA BD 7/3/15 Separate Residence 8/8/15
