Just wanted to reach out and say I think you should be very proud of all you did and are doing to try to be strong to either save your marriage or become a very strong and improved person. I sometimes also feel like I didn't do enough but we have to forgive ourselves in order to move forward. My H also talks about how he "deserves to be happy" yet is still unhappy. And he still filed for divorce and moved out. I don't think they really know what they are doing but it's so tragic to let a marriage fall apart without trying. My humble advice would be to ignore his text and treat yourself kindly tonight. It must've been incredibly difficult to move out.
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16