Your therapist actually used those words, "she's not the type"? What type of woman has an A? Was he/she referring to women in high society, good families, secure finances, loving husbands, wonderful parents, formal education, religious, high morals/values..........or was the therapist thinking the type would be some woman from the wrong side of town, low income, abusive background, low education, loose morals, dysfunctional family, unstableness, etc.? Well, I have news for the therapist. Infidelity is no respector of persons! It's just like cancer. It can hit in the best of homes and worst.
I think it is a big mistake for any individual to believe there is a type of person who will have some sort of an affair, and a type of person who won't have an affair of any kind.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
