Hope is not a Strategy- It looks done

[rich4j]

Have "stewed" on this for a few days and going to address with her directly when she gets back in town tomorrow on beatufiul Valentines Day!

My D was making her a card today while she was away and asked "Daddy..why don't you make a card?". I had nothing for her as I know she won't either so wrote up a card to keep my D on a good track. Its such a tough situation right now.

I go back and forth about digging deeper to see about an affair as some days I am like "no way" and other days she actually points all the signs to she has been having something.

I do once think she is having a PA out of town. I spoke with our prior therapist last week and she thought she is not the type to do this....

But the person I suspect she may be having a fling wiht....which she has no idea I do.....cuz I did some snooping and its 5 hrs from here.....she may have been with last night

She goes out to dinner or drinks in his town and puts it on our credit card. She obviously has no idea I have any idea of him at all but its kind of a coincidence to be in his town???

Still waiting on my L to see if this would impact the divorce in my state.

What a great valentines gift....she probably spent the weekend with him