Most of our conversations/interactions have to do with the kids and her lack of disciplining them. Of course there are money issues as well that have to do with the chidren and after 8 months of the signing of the settlement agreement, she is finally wanting her things out of my house and expects me to drop everything to accommodate her demands. I have been ignoring her. I am not keeping her from her stuff, but I don't have time to drop what I am doing and give her what she wants when she wants it. I know it is making her upset (and I am not trying to) because she is used to getting what she wants. When she doesn't, she gets angry.
Many have told me to just move on, but even though she is controlling and goes out of her way to push my buttons, I still keep looking for hope that it may someday change. I thought it was getting better a couple years ago, but it is much worse now. I am still having a hard time accepting the fact that we are no longer married. I still feel like she is my wife. I am not in denial, but it is like losing a family member. No, I don't want to continue being treated poorly, but I want what I thought I had.
