I feel the same way, HopeRB. I have been GALing for 7 months. Although I was very angry about his affair so just recently (last 3 weeks) have done a 180 letting the rage subside. At first I made up ways to interact with him. Now, Like you, it's been months and we have very little interaction unless it's about our boys. I agree it seems like my H isn't phased or empty from any of it. I just hope for both of us if we show how much we've gone back to the woman they fell in love with on a consistent basis that they will see they made a mistake walking away. Keep posting - I'm pulling for you. Thanks for sharing your story.


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16