No, nothing in writing yet! I have to be patient. It feels like now that she has said some of the things she has said, she has to either dump ow or I'm out of the picture. She knows that, so the ball is in her court. I'm ok with giving her time because I've learned I can't rush her with any decision. And as long as I know where she (says she) feels, I'm in a good frame of mind where I feel I have some choices and therefore some power. If she still can't tell ow it's over then I know I have to move on even more deliberately. Of course I'm hoping for R. If she chooses ow over me I will be devastated all over again. That's why pulling back now is a good plan for me.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
