I am more than comfortable being your online sober mentor, any time you need. I will do my very best with 12 steps with you as required.
I internet promise.
I am not blaming you for your W behaviour, her A or EA is her choice over which you had no control. If there comes an appropriate time then she may benefit from Alanon. If it read that way that wasn't my intention.
I can not analyse if your W is in MLC, although I do think she was LRT before she had her fling. I think as a result of her anger.
Hugs
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW