Wife wants to "move on"

[Sotto]

Hi Clay, as you guys are already D, I would definitely not engage in any of her anger stuff. I would go pretty 'dim' and only interact in a minimal way and on parenting things. Leave her to twist in the air with her own anger.

If she starts baiting you, just say - I'm not willing to discuss this when you are angry like this. We can talk another time when you're calmer. And if she continues - just walk away.

You could even say - XW, we are D for months now. I'm not going to continue arguing about this.

I would leave her to toss in the wind with her anger and not worry about what she may call you. If she thinks you're passive aggressive, that's up to her. For your own part, I would aim for assertive and moving on without her.

JMHO of course. I post in the MLC part of the forum and there are a few guys there with W's in MLC - if you haven't visited already, you may want to have a read there.

Take care xx