I am not sure if I should be posting in this forum or in the MLC forum. Not sure how I would move the post or continue it somewhere else.
I have done quite a bit of reading on MLC and still find myself tempted to try and reason with my ExW. I am sure it wouldn't be a good outcome, but I am still tempted to try. It seems like she gets meaner every day, although sometimes she appears as sweet as honey.
It seems as though I cannot do or say anything without her getting angry and being controlling. If she truly is going through a MLC and there is a slight possibility she will come out of it at some point, how do I keep things from escalating? If I ignore her demands, she gets upset and calls ME passive-aggressive and if I respond to her ridiculousness, she gets even more angry. I am in a lose/lose situation. I am trying to just ignore her, but that doesn't seem to be effective in not making her angry.
