Hi NYGal, just catching up on your thread as I've not been on here the last few days. What a turn up for the books W saying all this! You've had some great advice from Wonka and I totally agree with her. Don't give in too easily and you definitely need to see that letter of NC to OW first too. I made this mistake when my H came back 9 years ago. Was just so pleased to have him back I didn't insist on anything and a few years later discovered he'd never stopped contact with OW, now I'm here again trying to rescue my M. Good luck though, I'm rooting for you!
